It doesn’t matter if you’re male or female, we all like to know we’ve still got it 😀
Lots of studies have shown that their are 6 main reasons people flirt, here they are
• Sex: trying to get into bed with you
• Fun: treating it like a game
• Exploring: trying to see what it would be like to be in a relationship
• Relational: trying to increase the intimacy of a relationship
• Esteem: increasing one’s own self esteem
• Instrumental: trying to get something from the other person
What’s your reason?
Assuming you flirt every now and again 😉
Here’s something that will come as no surprise to you,
Men are significantly more likely to have a sexual motivation, while women tend to have a relational one.
No surprises there huh?
OK let me give you some more flirty facts then I’m gonna show you why this matters online
I’m a guy and I know I’ve been guilty of this,
Evidence from multiple studies supports the idea that, among heterosexual people, men tend to over perceive sexual interest from women, while women tend to under perceive sexual interest from men.
In other words, us blokes tend to think women are into us when they aren’t, and women tend to not notice when men are into them.
It’s a wonder anyone ever gets laid!
Ok let me tie this together for you,
In 2004, a psychologist called Nicolas Gueguen had 20-year-old men approach women pedestrians in a French city and ask for their phone number. Half the time, the men simply made the request; half the time they lightly touched the woman’s forearm for one second while asking.
Sure enough, the men were more successful in getting the woman’s digits when they’d touched her arm.
It’s the same online
Your communication with your customers should be informal and fun, you should make a connection with your customers
2 Great reasons
1. They will be far more loyal to you and your brand, that means cashola in the bank
2. Your business will be far more fulfilling for you personally
I love making a connection with my customers, it gives my business meaning beyond supporting my family.
How do you do that?
Well, to discover how to connect with people at the deepest levels, you’ll need to join the Aussie Online Entrepreneurs where I’ll show you that and a whole lot more!
You’ll find us a fun and friendly bunch of Aussies all building our own freedom businesses whilst supporting and helping each other
You can find out more here
Neil (bit of a flirt) Asher